I’m breaking up with you. I know we
didn’t have a very long affair, but you constantly make me feel like I need to
change something about myself. Whether its my appearance or the way I handle
myself. You beg me to change. Here’s the deal, love. Its like smoking, if I really
wanted to quit, I never would’ve started. You could try to turn that around on
me, but the difference is you were going to go away anyway. You are only meant
to last a little while. You were supposed to warm me up and inspire me, and
then go away. Hide on the other side of the sun until I need to thaw out again.
What I’m trying to say, darling. The words I’m so desperately searching for…
Fuck off summer; I’m tired of sweating and feeling fat.
The summer is good for making plans
and for fucking. Only skinny people can “make love” in the summer time,
everyone else just sweats way too much for that. I’m ready for the cool, crisp
nights that take my breath away and make me want to fall in love. The summer is
good for brief affairs that make me feel silly and wanted. Fall, winter, this
is where I thrive. I can wear cardigans and socks and jeans and not want to
drop the extra 40 pounds I have stored in my ass. I’m not built for hot. I’m
built for cuddles, and cider, and soup. I feel clean in the fall, I want to
smell like the sexy, masculine smoke of a bon fire. I want to make someone else
hold my beer when my hands get too cold. I want to borrow your jackets. I want
to stay in because the weather is too bad to go to the bar. I want to cook for
you and all of your friends. I want to dream about waking up in a cold room and
staying under the covers with you because its too cold to get up and face the
day.
I look better in the fall; I like a
good chill in my cheeks to make them pink. Not a sweaty glow. I smell better in
the fall, I feel better in the fall. I take better care of myself in the fall.
I tend to my heart, and my friends and my feelings. Show of hands, how many of
you have seen me this summer? Ok, put your hands down. If your hand was up, you
are one of the following: My roommate, my parents, someone I had a brief affair
with, someone I’m currently in like with, a friend of Cameron’s, or I work with
you. Everyone else, it was too hot. I didn’t want you to see me like this.
I want to go to a football game. I want
to cook chili. I want to stay the night with my little sisters and cuddle up in
blankets on the trampoline late at night and talk about what we want to be when
we grow up. I want to watch scary movies. I want to feel comfortable. I want to
be affectionate. I want to start something new. I want to knit. I want to go
thrifting so I can wrap myself in oversized men’s sweaters and skinny jeans. I
want to go to shitty local shows and drink dark beer. I want to wear orange and
red and yellow and laugh at everyone who is fading out of their fake summer
glow.
Now for the things I need. I NEED TO QUIT
WORRYING ABOUT THINGS I CAN’T CHANGE. I need to worry less about the things I
can’t control and play the cards that have been dealt to me. I need to live in
today and not last week, not tomorrow, not next year. To-fucking-day. That’s where
I am, that’s what I have to deal with, that’s what I need to worry about. I
need to take it one day at a time.
God damn it, I love when the
weather starts to get cold.